Are you a woman of substantial age? Have you kissed many frogs but has not yet found the right man to settle down with? Worry no more because this blog is for you. I will explore the secrets and most powerful secret in the laws of attraction for you.
In this blog, I will help you learn the qualities that draw men to women. Perhaps, from your research, you may have discovered that all single women, are very beautiful. Maybe, they are not aware of the secrets in the laws of attraction which am about to deliver to you.
Get ready to dive deep into this topic. Learn why most men are drawn into certain women, who may not even be beautiful in your perspective.
I strongly believe that after reading these secrets, you will unlock your inner charm. Every man you interact with will desire to settle down with you 😜
I know you are wondering where I got these tips from. May I inform you that I have carried out a lot of research from many men, as well as insight from psychologists (I have a degree in psychology)? Besides I have read many books. For instance there is one good book I read which I know you would love to
Allow me to explore all the secrets in the laws of attraction without wasting any more time.
Independence- First Secret in the Laws of Attraction
Independence is one of the most powerful secrets in the laws of attraction. You will attract a man the moment you learn to enjoy your own life. Undeniably, when you start dating a man, you become so attracted to him that you want to spend all the time with him.
However, don’t be too clingy to him. No matter what, don’t call or text him all the time. Sometimes, it’s good to give him enough space to miss you. In addition, don’t be too fast to answer his calls. Sometimes, let his calls go unanswered. Leave him wondering where you could be at that time.
Sometimes, hang out with your friends to avoid thinking about him. One of the biggest mistakes we women make is wanting to spend all the time with our boyfriends.
I want to tell you one secret that you must always have in you. first of all, make him realize that you are already a happy woman. All he can do is add to your happiness. Secondly, let him know that your happiness is not pegged on him. Besides, you are not like a child waiting to be taken care of by a man.
Respectable
Am sure you can’t wait to meet the man of your dreams. Time is moving fast and you are worried about being single for the rest of your life.
However, this does not give you the right to devalue yourself. What I mean is, don’t date a man who has another woman. Respect yourself, woman. Further, don’t make yourself look frustrated and desperate for a man to make you happy. Instead make yourself happy by doing stuff that you like during your free time.
First of all, value yourself. Don’t be too available and pay attention to everyone, including those who don’t deserve it. Therefore a married or an abusive man is not worth your time. You are worth more than that.
In most cases, a married man will not marry you. Besides, he will not leave his wife for you. All he will want from you is Sex and nothing more. Occasionally, he might give you the money you want, to make you stick to him even when he disrespects you or makes you feel you are worth nothing.
On the contrary, you are worth more than you can imagine. Style up and respect yourself because the right man is coming for you. Be patient.
Furthermore, time is moving. Don’t date the wrong man who will never be yours. You will be wasting your precious time. Consequently, you may forever remain single.
Passionate (strongest secret in the laws of attraction)
Most of us women are known to be emotionally driven. we are sometimes unpredictable and tend to project our emotions onto other people. Avoid this if you need a man in your life. Don’t be unpredictable in the sense that at one minute you are happy, and the next minute you are angry. Be consistent and avoid Mood Swings which are common in pregnancy.
More important, bring him Joy and excitement into his life. Otherwise, he will run away if you become a dramatic woman, who gets annoyed over petty issues.
Cultivate that passion and share it with him. Let that passion look natural and not fake. Naturally, be nice and caring to people around you. Set some limits though.
On the other hand, it would be very wrong to criticize or embarrass him in front of his friends. On the contrary, respect him and everyone around you so that he will always desire to spend time with you.
furthermore, be affectionate. Hug and hold his hands as a way of showing affection. However, that does not mean being sexual. Men like to take it slow with people they love. Don’t act too cheap. Instead, keep him hoping. Have your principles and note that you are not yet his wife.
Give Him Space
Men were created differently from women. your man must be adventurous. Let him be a man. Don’t call him all the time demanding to know of his whereabouts. His life does not always revolve around you. Besides he needs his male friends too.
I remember when I was at the university, some girls would spend time with their boyfriends all the time. Going for movies, lectures, or even meals.
They would even wash clothes for them. At times, they would spend the nights together. Unfortunately, after graduation, they never got married to the boyfriends.
Give your man space to be with his friends. The moment you start complaining about him, you lose him. He values their company as much as he values you. Trust him and don’t act suspicious in the sense that you must be where he is. As I said earlier, give him time to miss you.
Ambitious
Generally, a man will fall for an ambitious and industrious woman. This is manifested in the way you carry out projects you are passionate about with a lot of determination. Many women fail to understand the meaning of this strong secret to the laws of attraction. Don’t stop your project the moment you get married. Be more ambitious and seek for help from him if need be.
In any case, don’t give up on things you are passionate about for any man. Show him that you are a hard-working woman, who can add value to whatever he provides.
Beauty With Brains
Naturally, real beauty is more than physical appearance. Challenge him with your ideas. Sometimes, as you spend time together, engage in real discussions on topics meant to build each other. In so doing, he will want to spend more time with you.
However, don’t be a know-it-all. You might make him feel inferior. Avoid the “I” discussions as they may send the wrong signal.
Unquestionably a woman might be very beautiful physically but lacks what they call a heart of gold. You can practice having that heart of gold by being kind, understanding, and humble to other people.
Real men are attracted to a woman’s size of the heart and not of the hips or small waist. Be kind hearted and humble. This explains why some men will divorce their wives and marry their house girls who may be kind hearted and humble.
With that in mind, be a woman with brains. I don’t mean that you must have a degree or PhD to win a man’s heart. All I mean is, you must be mentally stimulating. Challenge him with opinions from time to time, and not always wait for his.
Occasionally, offers to pay for bills when he takes you out for lunch. Don’t expect him to pay for expenses all the time. Surprise him from time to time by also paying. He will see a woman responsible enough to be a wife.
Naturally, men are visual beings. They are attracted to what they see. Make yourself attractive and presentable. Men fall in love with women who know how to take good care of themselves.
Un demanding
There is nothing worse than a nagging woman. Perhaps, somebody has at one time told you how nagging you are. This could be one reason that turns men away from you.
Being nagging involves insisting that something be done your way. Don’t be self-centered and in control of everything. Avoid criticizing every time he does something for you.
Sometimes it’s good to walk away instead of engaging in arguments all the time. Change this behavior and you will be surprised how this works magic
Sociable- The final secret in the laws of Attraction
I want to share with you one secret in the laws of attraction. Always put a smile on his face whenever he is down. He will love to joke and play with you. Show him how much you enjoy his company (actions speak louder than words). Try to be funny and compliment with a sense of humor.
Similarly, be there for him when things are not going his way. Encourage and offer him, your support as much as you can. Let him count on you to offer a shoulder to cry on. In so doing, you will eventually become his confidant.
Indeed, being in a relationship with a friend is the best thing that can ever happen to anyone. Be understanding and never put obstacles in his way. instead, appreciate every little thing he does for you by simply Saying thank you.
From time to time, ask for his opinion. By so doing, he will realize how much you value him. However, that doesn’t mean that you do exactly what he says. Sometimes, share your different opinion.
Finally, he values his/her family. Be in good relationship with those close to him as well as his relatives. Never talk ill of his friends and relatives no matter what. Be friendly to all those around him at all costs.
Conclusion
If you follow these eight secret laws of attraction, every man will want to marry you. Surprisingly, men enjoy chasing. No matter how lonely you might feel, don’t be the one chasing him. He will undermine you and the relationship may not last. Let him be the one to look for you.
